— Fly Me To You · Private Travel
Some cities,
you make happen.
You don’t wait for my schedule. You send one message and I build the trip around you.
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— WHY THIS EXITSTS
Some men find me
and wait.
They check the tour page. They watch cities appear and disappear. They reach out and hear “not currently touring there” and file it somewhere in the back of their mind where quietly unresolved things live.
Months pass. The desire doesn’t. I know you’ve been thinking about this for a while.
Not this page specifically. The idea of this. The version of an evening that exists somewhere between what you have access to and what you actually want.
There’s another way this works.
You don’t wait for my schedule to include you. You make yourself the reason I go. Your city. Your dates. Your hotel if you want, mine if you don’t. The weekend your family is away. The window between meetings in a city neither of us lives in.
I fit into your life — not the other way around.
— THE SHIFT
You stop waiting.
You become the architect.
Here’s what I’ve noticed.
The men who reach out for FMTY don’t do it because they couldn’t find another option. They do it because they decided — quietly, without a lot of fanfare — that they were done waiting on someone else’s schedule to include them.
That decision says something. I find it attractive, if I’m being honest.
The best experiences don’t happen by accident. They get engineered. And the man who engineers one tends to be very specific about protecting access to it.
— What this requires of you
One message.
Where. When. What kind of time you’re imagining.
I handle everything else — travel, timing, the details that would otherwise be friction. Within 24 to 48 hours you have a plan. A brief call to set the tone. Then I’m there.
Present, prepared, and exactly as advertised.
The men who move through this well tend to signal their seriousness early. Not because I require a performance — because that’s simply how a man who has already decided tends to move.
A Burberry jacket I’ll never fully forgive New Orleans for. A champagne-stained evening in London after midnight. A stadium where the game blurred but I didn’t.
These aren’t fantasies. They happened. And they could happen again — with the right invitation.
I travel well. I pack light, move easy, and arrive exactly as advertised. A business trip that shouldn’t end when the meetings do. A city you’ve been to a hundred times and never once actually arrived in.
With enough notice, I can be almost anywhere. I handle my own travel. I arrive prepared.
Minneapolis Companion
— Where I’m building toward
Six cities.
Six open invitations.
Six cities I’ve been thinking about. Not abstractly — specifically. I know which bar I want to sit at in Paris. I know what I’d wear in Venice. I have opinions about Wyoming that I haven’t had anyone to test yet.
If your city is on this list, the invitation is already open. You’re not competing with a tour schedule — you are the reason the trip happens. And being the man who gets me to a city I haven’t been to yet comes with something.
We can talk about what when you reach out.
Lived In
London
moody, historic, quietly decadent
- ·Cocktails at The Connaught Bar — the sexiest martini in town
- ·Afternoon tea at Sketch in the pink velvet room
- ·A private capsule on the London Eye at sunset
- ·Rooftop champagne at Seabird or Aqua Shard
- ·The South Bank after dark, city lights on the Thames
My favorite city in the world. I have opinions. And I know exactly what to do with a night there that doesn’t end at dinner.
Quarterly
New York
fast, electric, endlessly mine — finally
- ·Jazz and dinner at Dizzy’s Club Coca-Cola
- ·A hidden speakeasy — Please Don’t Tell or Employees Only
- ·The Met, then Central Park until we lose track of time
- ·Late-night room service at Aman New York — robes, nowhere to be
- ·Wine and people-watching in the West Village
I’ve been to New York more times than I can count. I’ve never once properly been to New York — which means the room, the robes, and the part that happens after the city finally goes quiet.
Returning
New Orleans
loud, warm, irreplaceable
- ·Oysters somewhere that’s been there since before either of us was born
- ·Dancing until the city gets into everything
- ·A corner table and a conversation I didn’t see coming
- ·The kind of night that goes somewhere unplanned and stays there
Last time: Ruined a perfectly beautiful Burberry jacket I’ll never fully forgive myself for. I’m going back slower.
Never Been
Paris
romantic, decadent, intimately cliché
- ·A kiss at the top of the Eiffel Tower, the city sprawling below
- ·Montmartre on foot, hand in hand, finding what we find
- ·Dinner in Le Marais at a bistro where every bite is a flirtation
- ·Versailles, privately — the kind of grandeur that does something to a person
Pillowtalk possibilities: Four Seasons George V or Airelles Château de Versailles.
Never Been
Wyoming
vast, still, confrontational
- ·Amangani in winter — fireside wine as the sky goes indigo
- ·The Tetons doing what the Tetons do
- ·Horseback rides into a landscape that makes conversation feel more necessary
- ·The particular pleasure of being somewhere the rest of the world hasn’t reached yet
There’s a particular kind of silence in a place that big. I want to find out what it does to a conversation.
Never Been
Venice
languid, decadent, otherworldly
- ·A private gondola just before dusk
- ·Aperol spritz in Campo Santa Margherita as the world drifts by
- ·Getting deliberately lost until we stop trying to find our way back
- ·Dinner on the canal at Osteria all’Testiere
- ·Windows open at Ca’ Maria Adele, waking to water
I want to get deliberately lost there and see how long it takes either of us to care.
“She responded more thoughtfully than anyone I’ve encountered in this space. What followed was something most companions don’t attempt — layers of interconnection alongside intense passion. If you’re looking for more than one dimension, spending time with her is a no-brainer.
“At one point she leaned in and asked me something that straight up reset my brain — a question no one had ever asked me before. She was present, emotionally tuned in, and completely focused. Fully satisfied on every level: physically, emotionally, and intellectually.
“The heat built slowly and deliberately. She’s the definition of a Steel Magnolia — poised, incredibly intelligent, with a warm energy that instantly puts you at ease. She truly makes you feel like the only man in the world.
— The invitation, step by step
Simple by design.
Effortless by intention.
01
Write to me
Tell me where, when, and what you’re building toward. The more specific you are, the better I can shape what comes next — and I do love something to work with. That first message tells me almost everything I need to know. I pay attention.
02
I’ll build the outline
A personalized quote and travel plan within 24–48 hours. There’s room for refinement — this is a conversation, not a contract. I’ve built trips around specific requests, unusual timing, and at least one very particular hotel preference I will not be naming here. You tell me what you’re imagining. I make it work.
03
We align
Deposit and travel costs confirmed. A brief call to set the tone. I handle my own arrangements from there. This step is about ease, clarity, and mutual confidence. It should feel like the beginning of something good.
04
I’m there
Present, prepared, and exactly as advertised. The city is the backdrop. What happens inside it is ours.
— The cost of a good idea
What this looks like,
financially.
I. Lower 48
Domestic
I’ve closed restaurants in cities I’d never been to before that night. A domestic flight is nothing. The better question is what kind of evening you’re building — because I’ll arrive with something specific already in mind.
Noir and Untamed inclusive.
II. Hawaii + Alaska
Extended Domestic
There’s a version of you that exists only when the phone stops working and the water is that color. I want to meet him. Whether it’s a lanai in Maui or Juneau in the shoulder season — I’ll arrive ready, and I’ll stay curious.
Noir and Untamed inclusive.
III. International
Global
Cocktails at The Connaught Bar in London. A villa on the Amalfi Coast. The giant swings in Bali with nothing below you but jungle. I travel well, arrive prepared, and I have strong opinions about whim and whimsy.
Noir and Untamed inclusive. Inquire within.
The Invitation
I’ve closed restraints in cities I’d never been to before.
I’ve watched a man realize, somewhere around the second cocktail, without saying a word, that this was the best decision he’d made in years. I’ve arrived somewhere neither of us had ever been and made it feel like we’d been there before.
That’s what happens when the right invitation finds me.
If you’ve been reading this page and something has been building — that’s not an accident. That’s a man who already knows what he wants taking his time about it. Which, for the record, is exactly my kind of man.
Write to me. Tell me where you are and when you have time. I’ll take it from there.
I handle my own travel. I arrive exactly as advertised. Everything else we sort before I board.
— What to include
- The city and your dates
- ·The kind of time you’re envisioning
- ·Whether you’d like me to join you at your hotel or if accommodations are open
- ·Any specific plans you already have in mind
Cancellations within 7 days incur the full rate. Reschedules incur flight change fees. Everything else we sort as we go.
Send me an invitation. I’ll take it from there.